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		By: Jessica Luxmoore		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jessica Luxmoore]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Feb 2020 02:05:57 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://jlux.guru/gratitude/#comment-49&quot;&gt;Timbo&lt;/a&gt;.

Absolutely a great pic!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://jlux.guru/gratitude/#comment-49">Timbo</a>.</p>
<p>Absolutely a great pic!</p>
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		By: Timbo		</title>
		<link>https://jlux.guru/gratitude/#comment-50</link>

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		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Feb 2020 23:45:07 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://jlux.guru/gratitude/#comment-45&quot;&gt;Jessica Luxmoore&lt;/a&gt;.

I&#039;ve addressed this in Holding Hands]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://jlux.guru/gratitude/#comment-45">Jessica Luxmoore</a>.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve addressed this in Holding Hands</p>
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		By: Timbo		</title>
		<link>https://jlux.guru/gratitude/#comment-49</link>

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		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Feb 2020 23:44:32 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://jlux.guru/gratitude/#comment-44&quot;&gt;Jessica Luxmoore&lt;/a&gt;.

No, the words aren&#039;t all completely relevant to me or us. However, it&#039;s the title of the song that was brought to mind (for both of us) by my description of my state, rather than the lyrics. The music is so appropriate for the title, though. The chorus is fine. And since you&#039;d raised the song, I thought I might as well add in in there. And it&#039;s a great picture, if I do say so myself.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://jlux.guru/gratitude/#comment-44">Jessica Luxmoore</a>.</p>
<p>No, the words aren&#8217;t all completely relevant to me or us. However, it&#8217;s the title of the song that was brought to mind (for both of us) by my description of my state, rather than the lyrics. The music is so appropriate for the title, though. The chorus is fine. And since you&#8217;d raised the song, I thought I might as well add in in there. And it&#8217;s a great picture, if I do say so myself.</p>
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		By: Jessica Luxmoore		</title>
		<link>https://jlux.guru/gratitude/#comment-45</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jessica Luxmoore]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Feb 2020 12:34:05 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Then, as my feelings for you developed, I daren’t hold hands as that would have threatened to release emotions I was trying hard to contain. Trying hard to deny, initially.

Fascinating- further revelations required, please.
I didn’t pick up on this, I suppose because you had been so insistent there would be no “relationship” for you.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Then, as my feelings for you developed, I daren’t hold hands as that would have threatened to release emotions I was trying hard to contain. Trying hard to deny, initially.</p>
<p>Fascinating- further revelations required, please.<br />
I didn’t pick up on this, I suppose because you had been so insistent there would be no “relationship” for you.</p>
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		By: Jessica Luxmoore		</title>
		<link>https://jlux.guru/gratitude/#comment-44</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jessica Luxmoore]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Feb 2020 12:27:14 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[You’re just  too clever!
Not sure the words are ideal ?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You’re just  too clever!<br />
Not sure the words are ideal ?</p>
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		By: Timbo		</title>
		<link>https://jlux.guru/gratitude/#comment-40</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Timbo]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Feb 2020 14:15:01 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://jlux.guru/gratitude/#comment-33&quot;&gt;Jessica Luxmoore&lt;/a&gt;.

I&#039;ve driven that road a few times previously, the last time just 2 days earlier, so I knew it was there. I thought it would be the perfect spot to stop.
Ditto! I thought of that song, too.
Yes, I didn&#039;t mean I would get rid of it, just that I would move it from the head of the post. Even if I deleted it from the post, it would remain as the featured image, so would be the one you see in the list of posts. But if you prefer to have it remain in the post, that&#039;s fine. I haven&#039;t seen the other photos I took of the beach yet. They may not be worth using as the header image.
I thought that my feeling was more in the present, rather than responsive to Moya&#039;s situation, but perhaps you are right.
No Yesterday. Not available. Very disappointed. Love to watch it with you. As I was watching it, there were places where I wondered what you thought when you watched it in the cinema and what we might have discussed had I accompanied you.
I am a hand-holder. Usually when walking and in the cinema, not so much on the couch. Prefer cuddles on the couch. You can have them if you behave.
I don&#039;t find it surprising that we have never had that discussion. It is drifting very close to personal relationship behaviour territory. Had you raised the topic, I&#039;m not sure how I would have felt. Probably uncomfortable. Wondering what it meant that you raised it. But I thought about it.
In the early days of me staying with you, I could have held your hand then and it would have just been a way of connecting with a friend. Later, when you were dating the bumbles, you spoke about holding hands with one of the dates and I realised that was a significant step for you, so I would never have attempted to do so from then on for that reason. Then, as my feelings for you developed, I daren&#039;t hold hands as that would have threatened to release emotions I was trying hard to contain. Trying hard to deny, initially.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://jlux.guru/gratitude/#comment-33">Jessica Luxmoore</a>.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve driven that road a few times previously, the last time just 2 days earlier, so I knew it was there. I thought it would be the perfect spot to stop.<br />
Ditto! I thought of that song, too.<br />
Yes, I didn&#8217;t mean I would get rid of it, just that I would move it from the head of the post. Even if I deleted it from the post, it would remain as the featured image, so would be the one you see in the list of posts. But if you prefer to have it remain in the post, that&#8217;s fine. I haven&#8217;t seen the other photos I took of the beach yet. They may not be worth using as the header image.<br />
I thought that my feeling was more in the present, rather than responsive to Moya&#8217;s situation, but perhaps you are right.<br />
No Yesterday. Not available. Very disappointed. Love to watch it with you. As I was watching it, there were places where I wondered what you thought when you watched it in the cinema and what we might have discussed had I accompanied you.<br />
I am a hand-holder. Usually when walking and in the cinema, not so much on the couch. Prefer cuddles on the couch. You can have them if you behave.<br />
I don&#8217;t find it surprising that we have never had that discussion. It is drifting very close to personal relationship behaviour territory. Had you raised the topic, I&#8217;m not sure how I would have felt. Probably uncomfortable. Wondering what it meant that you raised it. But I thought about it.<br />
In the early days of me staying with you, I could have held your hand then and it would have just been a way of connecting with a friend. Later, when you were dating the bumbles, you spoke about holding hands with one of the dates and I realised that was a significant step for you, so I would never have attempted to do so from then on for that reason. Then, as my feelings for you developed, I daren&#8217;t hold hands as that would have threatened to release emotions I was trying hard to contain. Trying hard to deny, initially.</p>
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		By: Timbo		</title>
		<link>https://jlux.guru/gratitude/#comment-39</link>

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		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Feb 2020 13:50:25 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://jlux.guru/gratitude/#comment-34&quot;&gt;Jessica Luxmoore&lt;/a&gt;.

Umm...no comment.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://jlux.guru/gratitude/#comment-34">Jessica Luxmoore</a>.</p>
<p>Umm&#8230;no comment.</p>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jessica Luxmoore]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Feb 2020 11:51:46 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Ha! It&#039;s the name of the beach &quot;Ellis Beach&quot;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ha! It&#8217;s the name of the beach &#8220;Ellis Beach&#8221;</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Feb 2020 11:50:15 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I bet you could not believe it when you saw the name of that cafe or did you google it in advance, haha. 

Your writing is another really beautiful expression of your love, it&#039;s humbling. Hand on heart, I am so grateful too. 

I&#039;m easy like a Sunday morning .... came to mind. 

That feeling of joy, that smile that forms, that lightness that one feels, that heart expansion; that&#039;s what I was referring to when I messaged you and asked &quot;You know, do you get those days sometimes when you think about us and go ...geeeez we&#039;re so lucky!

And your priceless response &quot;Every week for a few months. Every day recently.&quot; 

Please don&#039;t swap the image out, but maybe you can put it at the end or partway if you wanted to add a bit more.

I  suspect the immersion you have experienced in the last 48 hours may have contributed to your feeling of calm and happiness when you have again witnessed how it feels when life feels like a lemon.

Did you watch Yesterday again on the flight? We can add that to our list of films to watch together, and now you are assured of a seat beside me, although it is nice to be able to stretch out on two sofas, maybe that&#039;s why peeps watch television in bed? Will we hold hands as we watch?  Are you a hand-holder? So many walks we have had, and a conversation we never have.

I love we are &quot;us&quot;.

Sweeetfeet xxxxx]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I bet you could not believe it when you saw the name of that cafe or did you google it in advance, haha. </p>
<p>Your writing is another really beautiful expression of your love, it&#8217;s humbling. Hand on heart, I am so grateful too. </p>
<p>I&#8217;m easy like a Sunday morning &#8230;. came to mind. </p>
<p>That feeling of joy, that smile that forms, that lightness that one feels, that heart expansion; that&#8217;s what I was referring to when I messaged you and asked &#8220;You know, do you get those days sometimes when you think about us and go &#8230;geeeez we&#8217;re so lucky!</p>
<p>And your priceless response &#8220;Every week for a few months. Every day recently.&#8221; </p>
<p>Please don&#8217;t swap the image out, but maybe you can put it at the end or partway if you wanted to add a bit more.</p>
<p>I  suspect the immersion you have experienced in the last 48 hours may have contributed to your feeling of calm and happiness when you have again witnessed how it feels when life feels like a lemon.</p>
<p>Did you watch Yesterday again on the flight? We can add that to our list of films to watch together, and now you are assured of a seat beside me, although it is nice to be able to stretch out on two sofas, maybe that&#8217;s why peeps watch television in bed? Will we hold hands as we watch?  Are you a hand-holder? So many walks we have had, and a conversation we never have.</p>
<p>I love we are &#8220;us&#8221;.</p>
<p>Sweeetfeet xxxxx</p>
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